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tri-parentingChanging Views Regarding a “Typical Family”

The Mirriam-Webster Dictionary defines a family as “the basic unit in society traditionally consisting of two parents rearing their children.” Sociologists define it as a group that society recognizes as being connected to one another by blood, marriage, or adoption; its members are tied to one another emotionally and they provide for each other’s well being.

Our ideas regarding the make-up of a typical American family have changed over the last few decades. Not that long ago, the traditional American family was thought to comprise a mother, a father, and their children. Today single-parent families as well as “cohabitation” families, in which the parents do not marry, have become quite common.

gray divorceDespite the fact that the overall divorce rate has declined in recent years, the rate of divorce for those 50 and over has doubled, with the rate for those 65 and over even higher. These breakups have become known as “Gray Divorce.” There are several factors that help account for this increase.

Baby Boomers

Many of these couples are so-called baby boomers; they married at a time when divorce was on the rise. This, coupled with the fact that people in remarriages are more likely to divorce than those in first marriages, may be one of the factors leading to the increase.

matrimonial law reforms
In January 2016, Governor Christie signed into law a new Child Support Bill. It was the third bill signed by the governor in a little more than three years that resulted in important changes in matrimonial law for New Jersey. The first was the Premarital Agreement Act of 2013; the second was the controversial Alimony Reform Act of 2014.

Those in favor of the family law changes pointed to the changes in our society. When the previous versions of the first two laws were enacted, those in favor suggested that there were fewer women in the work force and that many of the women who did work were less educated than those who are employed today. Proponents of change argued that modern women are, therefore, more likely to be able to support themselves.

Those opposed to many of the changes found in these three newer laws noted that even in modern times many women—in agreement with their spouses—opt to put their careers aside in order to raise their children and manage their household. They contend that marriage should be thought of as a partnership with each member focusing on a different area of responsibility.

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